I think letting them go from their pain is the ultimate sign of caring and love we can give our little mates, the nicest but most difficult. Scientists are just starting to realize how intelligent and aware animals are but us paranormal people always have known it and felt it
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It is true, the love of an animal is so unconditional, something we cannot find in people often. Maybe our moms.
She’s still here. I’ve heard the jingle of her bells at least once since she died. But putting her down and taking my dad off of life support were two of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.I think letting them go from their pain is the ultimate sign of caring and love we can give our little mates, the nicest but most difficult. Scientists are just starting to realize how intelligent and aware animals are but us paranormal people always have known it and felt it
They never truly leave us. We may not get to see them often or by command, but when we truly need them, i believe they will be by our side. It took many years and a truly scary incident for my grand pop to pay a visit to me. It was enough to give me what i needed to move beyond what happened and put it into perspective.
I have yet to experience any visitations. I’m more than capable of standing on my own feet, but I wish I had my parents still. I’m 42 and still feel I need their guidance. Stuff happens, I get it. But I’m sick of losing everyone I hold dear.
It is a terrible condition of life, loosing people. God help us all get through it until it is our time to go. Most of us in the older group here share your pain of loss, it doesn't help much but we understand and there is some comfort in knowing you are not alone.
I completely understand. I also lost too many close to me, some in fairly short order. After my dad passed i was about to throw the towel in and have a serious talk with the 'man upstairs'. Enough already. I barely got over losing one of my best friends then you take my dad too? It truly sucks. I miss his firm guidance. He never sugar-coated anything but that was my dad. I miss joking, laughing and fishing with my friend. Eventually things become easier and trying not sound like a broken record, you (and i) will find the peace needed. Not just saying it, i believe it.
Same with the death of my Mom in 1992. I will never forget the feeling of aloneness and despair I felt going into the empty family home less than an hour after her death to retrieve some paperwork needed by hospice. I lost it when I spotted the only hairbrush she'd ever used since I could remember.
