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My worst date was with a guy who was super hot...until he got behind the wheel of a car and drove like a maniac. Thought I was gonna die. I actually was screaming for him to stop and let me out. He finally did, luckily at a gas station with a phone. I heard that about two years later he finally managed to wreck his very nice car and got his license suspended. I'm amazed it didn't happen sooner...unless the police could just never catch him doing 110!
 
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Never had a worst date. But I once dated a college girl (she was 8 years younger) and found out she was an internet nudist. She had a website and paid for her college tuition through that. No porn. But that was enough for me to say goodbye.
 

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I think I'm a tolerant guy but I don't care for violence or meanness in a person and when I see an inkling of that in a woman on a first date, that's it. I figure I'd be seeing a lot more of that if I were to continue seeing her so strike that one off the list.

As an actual example: I've met a lady and I say something funny and she laughs and "playfully" socks me on my shoulder. Only the punch is hard and actually hurts for a while. Oh, boy. What would she do if she were actually mad at me? Reach for a butcher knife? Hmmm ... assault and battery on a first encounter. I think I'll pass on that one!
 

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The one that comes to mind wasn't really a date, but going to a girl's mother's condo for dinner after work. I was still in high school, so a girl cooking me dinner was pretty cool. I finished work and went to the condo which was not far from where i worked. When i got there, there was ONE plate ready on the table. She told me to sit down and she stood behind me the entire time. No...not creepy at all. I asked her if she was going to eat and or sit down, she said she was ok. She stood there the whole time while i ate. Now i knew her, so she was not a stranger. I did not feel any bad intent until after a very short time, i became VERY sick. I remember sitting on the floor with my stomach twisted in a knot. I still lived at home so i called my mom to come and get me. The girl tried to get me to stay there and 'care' for me, but my mother flew over there quick as hell lol. Needless to say, i did not EVER go near her again. No idea what her motive was...poison me...drug me? Wow people are screwed up.
 

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I may or may not have shared this story, so forgive me if I have. But the worst date I ever went on, started from the day I accepted a date with this guy; it was a blind date. He now had my number and proceeded to call me after work every day of the week even though we were going to meet that Friday. We had never actually seen each other. I started to dread actually meeting him but went through with it. We went to a movie and all through it, he kept turning his head to stare at me. I was so thankful for that date to end, and bid him goodnight at my door.

The phone calls resumed. I told him that I didn't think we were a match, and to stop calling, but he continued. One night he showed up about midnight and started pounding on my door. I called the police but he was gone by the time they arrived. He called again and I hung up on him and called my father, who was a police officer in NJ. This guy lived in NJ too, just over the border from PA. My father asked for his number. He called him and shared the fact that he was my father, and that he had just completed recertification with the police baton. He said he would be more than happy to visit this guy and give a demonstration if he ever called my number again.
 

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The one that comes to mind wasn't really a date, but going to a girl's mother's condo for dinner after work. I was still in high school, so a girl cooking me dinner was pretty cool. I finished work and went to the condo which was not far from where i worked. When i got there, there was ONE plate ready on the table. She told me to sit down and she stood behind me the entire time. No...not creepy at all. I asked her if she was going to eat and or sit down, she said she was ok. She stood there the whole time while i ate. Now i knew her, so she was not a stranger. I did not feel any bad intent until after a very short time, i became VERY sick. I remember sitting on the floor with my stomach twisted in a knot. I still lived at home so i called my mom to come and get me. The girl tried to get me to stay there and 'care' for me, but my mother flew over there quick as hell lol. Needless to say, i did not EVER go near her again. No idea what her motive was...poison me...drug me? Wow people are screwed up.
Selectric, this has to be the creepiest date ever!
 

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Did she have a reason to bear a grudge against you?
Not that i could recall. I know she transferred to my school at one point and i found she was following me class to class. It was rather creepy to find all that out so not really sure wth the intent was. I was only like 17 years old then, so what could i have possibly done to scorn someone to that point?