Short version....about 8 or 9 years ago, we were renting out our current house to a family who had a young man in his 20's. Jacob was a very large guy, a gentle giant with some autisim and some deep depression. On Oct. 4 of that year, he took his dad's gun, went out behind the house we were living in by the creek, and took his own life.
Jacob's ashes are on our property. Each year, we've had visits from him...in both houses. He tends to seek out his dad, visits his old room in this house that was then his, and also checks on my son who was the same age.