I’m with you on disliking funerals. I go tho for the grieving.I grew up living next door to a cemetery, lived there nearly 15 years until I was nearly 19. Never experienced anything paranormal. The cemetery had a reputation for being haunted (aren't they all?) but I never noticed anything.
That's as close as I can come to a funeral home experience, or lack of it.
I hate funerals, hate saying Good Bye. I don't plan on attending my own, when the time comes.