No Fear

a psychology professor once called me the 'most confident unconfident man ' , he ever met.
The point is, inner Barney Fife is a good guy and can be tamed - just don't take it personally. That for me took time. Still does.
that is the medium i prefer to maintain. if you get too confident it leads to pride, and ego..... the inner barney fife is humility and humbleness, and that is needed to maintain a balance.....yin and yang...work to keep them balanced.