Update on events as promised.
So the last couple of weeks have been interesting, not much to report history wise other than in late Victorian times the village midwife lived here. But in regards to events lots to talk about and has certainly changed my views on ghosts.
So the younger boy continued to get disturbed at night, saying his brother kept trying to get into bed with him. After a few times of this happening the older brother asked why I kept getting his brother up in the night. He said it had to be me because it was too tall to be his mum. He said he saw me and his brother walking out of the room holding hands but it was weird because even though the lamp was on we were dark and he couldn't see us properly, his exact words. A couple of days after he spoke to me about it, I found he got some pillows and blankets and made a bed up on the floor between their beds. I asked him about it and he said it was just something he wanted to do, so I left it at that and left the bed he made up. There has been no night time disturbance in their room since he made the extra bed up.
Next up I had an experience of my own which so far have decided not to tell my wife about. It was at night my wife had gone to bed so I was the only one up. I started to hear a clicking sound after a while I realized it was coming from my glass of drink. It sounded like someone tapping the rim of the glass with a fingernail and I could actually see the drink rippling on the surface. Thinking back to some of the advice offered to me on this forum, I decided to try and speak to what ever was there, and I must admit I did feel a silly doing it but I said, I know you are here and that you can hear me, immediately a book fell from the bookcase and the tapping got faster. The hairs were properly standing up on my neck at this point but I continued to talk and the tapping got even faster, I said as long as you are kind and don't upset the children you and the boy are welcome to stay. I feel a huge pressure against me for a moment and the tapping stopped. Since we had nearly a week without any major happenings the eldest son still seems to be playing with some one in their room and the third bed remains in place. But given that I was pretty much non believer, the last few weeks have really changed my views on such things. Once again thank you all for your words of wisdom and advice.