but in so many ways the answer or lesson learned isn't what you think,... its the path to get there, you see the answers only after letting go of the self, in that brief moment of not being, just seeing the truth for what it is,... the answer was always with you , just clouded behind what YOU think or want it to be....the truth is the truth, nothing else, and cannot be manipulated to fit our needs....it just IS...Simple reply. They rock