OKAY I will move my story here: yes to the gramma's coming back. Here's a good one. Christmas Day, 2007. My daugher would have been about 7 months old. My wife was in the bedroom up at my mom and dad's house, with emily in the crib at the foot of the bed. Renee came out of the bedroom, and asked me "didnt u just come in to go to bed?" I said no, i have been right here. She said someone was in the bedroom and sat on the bed. Now this was up in the woods on the waterfront so the bedroom was pitch bLack. we sat and thought about for a minute, and my mother knew the answer. It was my mothers grandmother come to see emily!! Totally makes sense, and gives you chills. That would have been my great grandmothers 100th birthday. she was born 12/25/1907. NOT a COINCIDENCE!