To be honest, Wands, I simply don't do a lot of people at once. Too much energy flies for me to defend against. Family is a bit easier, as I know who needs what before they even get in the door. But groups of unknowns...nope. I totally understand what you are talking about trying to "level" things. I've learned to hold some really strong shields in place.My empathy makes me want to withdraw in a crowd. But within my family where I can’t get away, my empathy makes me want to try to “level out” all the varied emotions. I seem to want to find a way to even out all of the highs and lows across the entire tribe.