Every step you've taken so far in your life has been exactly right and in divine alignment to get you to *this* moment, to be *this* person.
The battle wounds acquired along the way? The perceived mistakes? The struggling times? The moments of madness? Those things you said, did or didn't do, and still beat yourself up about with regret or shame?
They were all PERFECTION.
You are the exact perfect you today, right where you're supposed to be.
(P.S. Your mind would have you believe you've been in charge this whole time, but it's always been spirit running the show. Guiding, leading, redirecting, tossing the random obstacle in the way, etc. Pfffttt...why live looking at how you think things coulda, woulda, shoulda worked out if only...quite a waste of energy really.)