its a good "self help" topic. nothing is gonna materialize or manifest on its own. no matter how much you "wish" for it...... (not saying that is what this is about, havent read it, just seen a lot that is like that.) if you desire something or strive for something, that in itself will put you in the vacinity, in those circles, .. but to be successful in reaching the goals you must work for it, stay persistent, work more, stay focused, work more..... oh yeah did i say you have to work for it....lol.... meditation, manifesting thoughts, focused materialization, etc... is a great way to stay on track, to stay focused. but nothing comes without effort. set the goal, put in the time and effort. reap the rewards........ the secret.......work