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Hello PF,

Many times when my wife is in pain I will feel a similar pain in the same location despite having no ailment. Has this happened to other people? I've read of husbands sharing their wife's pain in child birth but not back pain or stomach pain or headaches.
You are not alone with this one. Many here have been through similar things through the years as they will tell you. I have had this happen through most of my adult life. I and my sister have a close bond . We were born 11 months apart,and always can tell where her aches and pains are. I believe that I have made this issue worse over the years, because when I would pray for a loved one, I would also ask to have their pain so that a child would not [ not good I know ] . This has worsened to the point where its hard to be around large groups of people for a long length of time because for the 2o years or so it seems to be on automatic and draging me down .Oh and, Hey there everybody! :D
 
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You are not alone with this one. Many here have been through similar things through the years as they will tell you. I have had this happen through most of my adult life. I and my sister have a close bond . We were born 11 months apart,and always can tell where her aches and pains are. I believe that I have made this issue worse over the years, because when I would pray for a loved one, I would also ask to have their pain so that a child would not [ not good I know ] . This has worsened to the point where its hard to be around large groups of people for a long length of time because it for the 2o years or so it seems to be automatically draging me down now .Oh and. Hey there everybody! :D
Hey there, Grinch! So good to see you. :)
 

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Thank you for sharing that with me Lynne. I have learned equally from being able to share/learn from you and the other "PNFers". You all are like a little social media Christmas gift.

The fact that my desire to tell the truth stuck with you Lynne, you might recall (gosh I hope I shared it) that recognizing my psychic side corresponded to roughly that same time. I think I'd very grossly relate it as, "When I stopped contributing to the untrue clutter around me, my mind started to tune in to a different reality...one that was hidden from me by the alternate reality my falsehoods likely created." If that makes any sense at all, then I would challenge you - a.k.a. warn you - that you too might begin to have psychic occurrences which you previously did not have.
I totally get what you are saying.
 
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Hello PF,

Many times when my wife is in pain I will feel a similar pain in the same location despite having no ailment. Has this happened to other people? I've read of husbands sharing their wife's pain in child birth but not back pain or stomach pain or headaches.
The synchronicity of this site continues to amaze me. Just the other day my lymph nodes were/are really flaring up with this immunotherapy. I was getting the chills & aches in my back. Went to see my sweetie & he had two lymph nodes in his neck just flared up & was feeling chills & aches in his back. Many other times our pains were the same on the same day. When we are together the symptoms ebb away & we will both remark how we are feeling better at the end of our visit.
 

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I totally get what you are saying.
Your understanding. That is the best gift Lynne.

Now, prepare. Your gift might be to awaken to another layer of personal experiences. I’ve read about, as a mom, how you have been understanding to your families experiences. You might become incrementally open to the universe.
 

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You are not alone with this one. Many here have been through similar things through the years as they will tell you. I have had this happen through most of my adult life. I and my sister have a close bond . We were born 11 months apart,and always can tell where her aches and pains are. I believe that I have made this issue worse over the years, because when I would pray for a loved one, I would also ask to have their pain so that a child would not [ not good I know ] . This has worsened to the point where its hard to be around large groups of people for a long length of time because for the 2o years or so it seems to be on automatic and draging me down .Oh and, Hey there everybody! :D
Grinch it’s so wonderful to read you. I hope you will come by more often. You are so missed!
 

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The synchronicity of this site continues to amaze me. Just the other day my lymph nodes were/are really flaring up with this immunotherapy. I was getting the chills & aches in my back. Went to see my sweetie & he had two lymph nodes in his neck just flared up & was feeling chills & aches in his back. Many other times our pains were the same on the same day. When we are together the symptoms ebb away & we will both remark how we are feeling better at the end of our visit.
That’s the one Mrs. C. The mysteries of our empathic connections.

Nice to know that you can feel better together too. I wonder if his comparative strength and health might be helping you...kind of a form of “reverse empathy”.

In any case, as Aces has taught me, love and light to you both.
 

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Your understanding. That is the best gift Lynne.

Now, prepare. Your gift might be to awaken to another layer of personal experiences. I’ve read about, as a mom, how you have been understanding to your families experiences. You might become incrementally open to the universe.
I’m looking forward to good things. Keeping it all positive. :D
 

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Yes maybe it's that society is suffering big time but I would say that over 50% of energy I get from strangers is negative or ambivalent. Rare to see someone choosing to be happy and rising above tribulation.
HJ, I wonder if that suffering is so strong as to darken nearly everything...

I know that my own light thoughts can be distracted by any number of mundane things - a stray thought about work, plans for dinner, temporary attention to background music, etc.

But I suspect that someone in deep darkness - real pain or significant need - might not be as easily distracted by the same kinds/number of things that easily distract me.

Hence, I wonder if that possibly more focused - and less distracted - darkness might more fully permeates the populace’s psyche...and thus impacts you more acutely?
 

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I’m looking forward to good things. Keeping it all positive. :D
Your Driving Ms. Daisy friends might have something new to discuss if you have an epiphanic awakening. Youve done well for them this year; so they surely can afford to partake in banter about how you psychically “spoke” with your horse during the morning’s feeding.