AS A BORN-AGAIN CHRISTIAN please let me say this, with ALL kindness - stay out of 'spirit shops'. Many are run by people interested in money only - and can dole out some VERY DANGEROUS advice!. You would be better off with someone from a reputable church praying over you!. It sounds like you may have a 'spiritual husband' ...... There are some Christian demonologists that refer to these beings as 'spiritual husbands' or 'spiritual wives' due to the nature of their actions - for instance, the 'spooning'. I know it disturbs you!. The enemy we know as Lucifer has entities and spirits at his beck and call, and they especially love to torment a Christian and mock Christ. You have heard of the 'Jezebel' spirit - I am sure - named after the actual person. This entity focuses on married men and creates disruption in a marriage by filling the husband with all sorts of out of the ordinary lustful thoughts & feelings. The same can happen to a wife too!. But you can defeat this entity. Be careful of opening doorways as a Christian - dabbling in the occult, purchasing items from spirit shops, etc - people do not understand that the supernatural world operates on a different set of rules. So a Christian may innocently be opening doorways and giving these entities permission to enter with their actions. God warned us strongly in the bible about these spirits...... you might want to refresh your knowledge of scripture too on this & PRAY for Jesus Christ to anoint you with protection via his precious blood. Good luck!!!. God bless YOU!.