Hi Lisa,
Firstly, sorry to hear about your loss. It is always difficult losing someone you know, but more so when it is someone very special to you.
As others have already stated, we have to ask questions about what you are experiencing to be able to offer help and advice - if indeed, we can. Not everything can be explained, especially as far as the paranormal goes. We don't always have all of the answers, but there are many members on here, all with various 'skillsets' (I myself am a paranormal investigator with over 25-years in the field) that can give you advice based on your feedback.
As an investigator, and as Debi has already stated, I would also like to know more about the '25' side to your story, Was this a seance? Something conducted by people involved with the church? Within a paranormal group? How exactly did the 'congregation' summon the spirit of your husband? This is quite an important piece of information and could form an important part of the 'bigger picture'......
Some further questions I would like to pursue with you if I may:
- Has any family member, past or present, ever had a history of mediumship or other extrasensory perception (ESP) that you are aware of?
- How do the 'others' make themselves known to you? Mostly just as a feeling of someone being around you? Or is it more visual and/or audible in nature?
- How long after the '25' did you notice the additional visitations? Immediately or a while after?
- You say that 'others have been here nonstop'. Apart from observing this, have you noticed any other activity at home, or anywhere else you happen to be, that you can not explain?
- Are any of the 'others' people you have known?
Purely going off what you have written in your initial post, and as you have already moved three times and this 'activity' has persisted, I would suggest at this time that,
if it is paranormal (unfortunately, the way that paranormal investigations work, we have to rule out all other 'explainable' reasons first, including environmental and medical factors, before deeming something as potentially being paranormal. It does not mean, by any means, that nobody believes you - it is just the way things
have to be conducted to be accepted as a legitimate investigation within the field we study), that one of two things
may potentially be happening here:
- You have some sort of attachment that may be attracting other entities to you
- This experience with your husband has 'opened' you up to the spiritual plane and, as such, you are able to 'tap' into the energies of others who have passed. In layman's terms, you are potentially experiencing some sort of 'mediumship' through your experience (the same way that some people who experience NDEs (near-death experiences) often report the feeling of being 'more tuned' to spiritual energies following their experience).
Please do not be 'put off' by any questions anyone asks - and if you do not feel comfortable doing so, you do not have to answer all, or even any, of them. But by doing so, you will help us understand your situation better and, as such, we can try to assist you further with our own feedback and support.
Welcome to the 'family' and we all look forward to hearing more from you.
