Welcome Kerry! I'm a newbie here too and everyone is so helpful and non-judgmental. I find we can talk about anything here. It's really nice!
I love what Debi has said in her entire reply to you and this particular paragraph rings so true. It's a fine line we walk when given information in this manner. I'm a paranormal researcher (or Ghost Hunter) and there's a cemetery that I visit once in a while. I go there because I've witnessed activity and have come to know a person in spirit there. I guess you can call him my Casper the Friendly Ghost.
Mr. Adler is his name. He's very vocal (via EVP) and was very loved in his time here. It's easy to tell that his family frequents his site. I wrestled with the thought of letting his loved ones know that he's just fine in his afterlife, but like Debi has mentioned above, not everyone is open minded. So I just keep his sweetness to myself.
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