My guest story is a combination of too long, too complicated, and personal. But I will share it was my Sister (me 38; her 55).
Invited her to stay with me at my condo during her cross country visit. I asked her politely many times for the length of her estimated stay but she wouldn’t say. So last day before her trip began I told her she was welcome for one full week but then the stay would be over.
Uncertain what was up I removed all sharp knives and scissors from my house. I told my two closest friend that if they didn’t hear from me by 5PM each night that week to assume something was wrong and therefore to check on me.
Seventh day came and my Sister gave no indication of planning to leave. Though I asked her repeatedly how I could help, she would ignore my offers. I took vacation to spend time with her and gave her my office to use as a comfortable bedroom. So that disrespecting and controlling sh&t wasn’t happening in my home. So I ushered her out as politely as I could. I didn’t care where she went nor how she got there at that point.
She told my family that I threw her out so whoever I was living with could move back in. Um...I lived alone. I needed my office back so that I could work again.