Well, I think the ghost looks like a skeleton?. She sees skeletons on youtube videos or Coco the movie & isn’t scared. She always describes what she sees lately, so if she sees a dog she says “look dog” or “look cat”. I also think it may look like a skeleton, bc when I use to go back and forth staying here & at family’s home, I had a disturbing dream. This place is old & hasn’t been lived in a while. It had mold in lot of places, rust, dirt, etc & I spent a lot of time cleaning it. I had a dream one night of a very skinny man that was all oily, grimy, just gross in my dream coming towards me.. I just feel like immediately when she said that, that she was describing what it looked like. Also bc she has never said skeleton & scary & spook in the same sentence before.
I use to live here when I was a young teenager. When I moved back in, I felt very uneasy with the upstairs bedroom. I remember when I use to nap sometimes in the bed up there (when I was young), I couldn’t wake up & felt like something was sitting on top of me. But now, I always feel uneasy until I turn on all the lights up there. But we’ve only gone up there a handful of times, otherwise we don’t at all.
I have heard a child giggling before when I walked in the kitchen from the garage & at first thought it was my daughter, but realized it wasn’t. I thought it was just my imagination. I heard footsteps on the roof running that woke me up, but I later told myself it was probably just a cat or a raccoon. I hear those occasionally now that I can tell sounds like an animal, but that one night, it sounded too much like a child’s footstep. I use to close that upstairs windows blinds & I have a bit of ocd & would make sure they were completely shut & all facing down. Three different times I noticed a blind would be open & facing a different direction. At first I freaked & thought someone was hiding in my home (bc there is a small attic) & checked everywhere. Then later wasps had gotten in that upstairs room & I told myself they must’ve wiggled there way through the blinds & opened some.
I remember upstairs feeling a breeze when I was standing by the bed & there are no windows or doors open. No fan, no air conditioner on. It was just a swoosh of air next to me.
But the one thing i couldn’t explain was the cabinet in my bathroom (downstairs). I walked in & heard the clear sound of the cabinet door open/close which is behind the entry bathroom door. It always makes a repetitive thud when you shut it. But all the cabinets were shut & not left open. I messed with them to convince myself of some possible alternative reason but I couldn’t come up with anything.
I will try to talk to it but worry I may provoke it to want to do something? I feel as if me ignoring it & pretending I don’t notice it has prevented anything further, but I don’t know. I also burn sage every couple of weeks to help ward negative spirits. But thank you for the helpful advice! I’m not sure where to go from here but want to move too bc I feel my health has significantly deteriorated since I have been here. Thankfully my daughter is still happy & healthy, but when these rare instances happen it certainly scares me..
