The first one was at the mother of my kids family home,I was playing cards with her parents at night facing the window. I felt someone behind me and looked at the window and saw the old gangster figure looking down at me. I spun around and just caught a glimpse of him then he vanished. It wasn't that out of the ordinary in that crazy home with paranormal entities seen on almost a daily, or nightly basis. The second time was ten years later, I was with a new lady and was standing in my hall talking to her in the laundry when Hatman walked past me turned and looked into my eyes from two feet away then walked into the toilet and vanished. I thought I was seeing things for a second until my girlfriend asked who was the guy who walked past. While he was a big, 6ft 2 or 3, bad looking character he didn't give off an evil or bad vibe and I feel he was trying to warn me off both relationships which ended badly. I can still remember his fedora hat, trenchcoat and dark features , a classic Hollywood goon.