Yeah, I went through all of that and went to Geek Squad/etc. However, since hooking up with all the awesome people on this post, it is now very very clear this is an actual spirit. Things have now gone beyond the computer and this I believe is in response to all the suggestions I received from this forum. Things seem to be good now as there have been some awesome, peaceful caring signs. Been watching football and highlights a lot last weekend. Sunday evening I was thinking about making peace and thought it would be cool to leave a sign, like a rose or something. I have internet tv using Sling TV, which always shuts off. You always have to select a new channel when this happens. I didn't. The tv then started and it went to football highlights news. I saw that as a rose. I was very happy and it was convenient. Another thing, I am working on my LInkedin profile and had my mobile phone with my site on it and talking out loud about the importance of the profile and making more connections so I could find work. I went to take a photo of something with my droid, after which I had the phone in my hand. When I went to take another photo, the web page I was working on was showing on the droid but I didn't switch apps, only had in hand for 30 seconds or so after the pic while I moved something. I saw that as a caring sign also. Other things also. Been feeling a lot better around here and set up a little shrine of photos of all my family who died. Very happy. I would still like a psychic to come out as I am still nervous. I would like to know what is what.