When a very close friend of mine passed, she was only 24. One of my best friends, his brother was killed at a young age as well. I have mentioned my battles with faith. When i see such young people being taken, it's confusing...frustrating and frankly it angers me. I try to put things into perspective and reason with it. ONCE, it ALL made sense. I wish i could remember what that sense was. As i said before, we are not meant to know everything. It all comes back to faith, doesn't it? I only had one visitation, though at least a few weeks after their death.