Credible NDE's

Very Interesting. Especially the story where the man had an nde when he was a child and met kind ladies who he didnt know. Then as he got older he saw a picture of them and found out they were his great grandmothers. I believe in reincarnation but find that it doesnt seem to fit in with the standard nde . I believe it because I feel I have lived before. When I discovered this I felt dismay as which mother will I see when I pass? I know that sounds wierd but why do some souls return but others stay over there. I guess it has something to do with our souls progression and the future of the planet maybe? Any input from others would be appreciated. I have read and listened to life between life by Newton but still dont know anyone that claims they have lived before except an Indian gentleman I know from India that felt the same.