I guess how you are wired matters...i guess lol. I always just did my thing. Never relied on someone else or followed someone else, unless i had to. With dealing with paranormal stuff through life, it tends to put you in a mind set that would accept the inevitable contact from other worlds. Now, other worlds can be multiple scenarios. I accept people for who they are until they prove me different. If they are hostile, then action can and will be taken. If peaceful and willing to just get along, sit down my friend and have a drink lol. Let's get to know each other.