This experience is one my boyfriend had but I was there to witness. We visited an abandoned church near my home town. It had nothing around for miles aside from cows and crops. Only one way in, a ditch all the way around and a long walk from the road. Anyway, when we entered, he got uneasy because there was evil graffiti on the floor and walls of the church. I have been before so was more bothered by a nesting bird above our heads and picking up some feathers (my younger brother collects them). My boyfriend got arrogant to hide his fear, mocking names on graves and kicking them. We were walking towards some war graves and he was walking beside me. All of a sudden he just turns around and walks away. I assumed he went to look at other graves and left him so I could pay my respects to the war graves. When I got back to the car, he begged me to put the feathers I had collected down. So I did and he was silent for the whole journey back home. Once home he went upstairs and just started weeping in bed. He then told me that behind a tree by the war graves he saw a man looking back at him. He said he couldn't remember his face but it had a long coat that was fastened up. It looked like it was looking out from behind the tree at him. Like it was trying to hide. He looked to me to see if I saw (I was looking in the same direction but saw nothing) and when he looked back he was gone. It spooked him enough he went back to the car and sat there until I joined him. Odd thing was he hardly spoke that night aside from shivering and not wanting to be left alone. However, he'd also ask odd questions like "do you have any family heirlooms?" And "do you have the medals of any family members I can see?" He knew the answers to them questions and it was an odd question to ask between him crying. He was cold to me aswell, snappy if I bugged him but then a second later would be like a frightened pup. I was really worried but the next morning, he was back to his old self. Honestly, he made me uneasy, the questions he asked I thought he was going to rob me or something else that was scary. Even though I know he never do such a thing. He doesn't remember anything but the fear. Not even how he acted or the man he saw. (He remembers he saw it but now how it looked) I remember it all, even wondering if it was safe to sleep next to him that night. (He did wake me up in the night to smile at me, say I was pretty then whispered for me to go back to sleep, that was odd but he does talk in his sleep so). In all honesty, its frightened me for awhile. How come only he saw thing thing, I know well it wasnt a person as I was stood next to the tree looking at the graves. Why did he act that way? What did he see? He is fine now, he believes in the paranormal more. Less arrogant in a graveyard or when he is frightened. This was over a year ago. Any thoughts are much appreciated, thank you.