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[Lynne]

I have found that one of the hardest things I have ever learned to do, was to forgive myself. When I am hard on myself, I am finding it harder to be forgiving. One of my birthday resolutions was to forgive myself when I make a mistake or give in to negativity. When I do, I find that it is much easier to tolerate the mistakes of other people.

I have learned some interesting things from this thread.

You are also teaching others too Garnet. This is very good advice.

 

[Emma]

I have found that one of the hardest things I have ever learned to do, was to forgive myself. When I am hard on myself, I am finding it harder to be forgiving. One of my birthday resolutions was to forgive myself when I make a mistake or give in to negativity. When I do, I find that it is much easier to tolerate the mistakes of other people.

I have learned some interesting things from this thread.

That’s a very interesting way to look at it.
I used to be so hard on myself and then found it hard to forgive people. Great thing you have pointed out!
I’ve realised people can change after they have made mistakes and it doesn’t make you look at things differently.

 

[Emma]

You make a good point there Lynn, I have someone that is steeling from me on a yearly basis and it is very hard for me to forgive, but I keep trying, for one reason if I do not it will destroy me, and the person that is hurting me probably feels none of what I feel.

I hope your situation gets better and this person does stop.

That sounds like a tough situation. I hope you can stop the crime against you. Forgiveness does not mean that offenders get off without facing legal obligations. It is a gift you give yourself in my opinion. The emotions come as a natural reflex but your will in forgiveness is a choice. The heat of emotion will generally ease over time.

yes, that’s right. They shouldn’t get off without facing legal obligations.
I hope your situation gets better Doglet and that this person stops.

 

[DogLet]

I hope your situation gets better and this person does stop.

yes, that’s right. They shouldn’t get off without facing legal obligations.
I hope your situation gets better Doglet and that this person stops.

Thank you, I am praying for them, but as far a legal, it can get super expensive.

 

[Emma]

Thank you, I am praying for them, but as far a legal, it can get super expensive.

May god give you the strength and patience.