can I ask another question please. I often seem to have a lot of coincidences, thoughts turn into reality, like my daughter left the bathroom light on, I don't think she likes the dark landing, and I thought, I hope the bulb doesn't go, and guess what the next day it blew and another time I was talking about a childhood friend I hadn't seen since the age of 5, she had moved abroad, 10 minutes later I saw her at the local supermarket, she was visiting her parents 30 years later, another time I noticed a building being erected, thinking what a lovely place it looked to work, I applied for a job, not realising it was relocating to those exact offices and now work there. I also always wanted to move into my parents road, the houses were way too expensive for me to afford, but one came available and my dad suggested helping me purchase it, sadly I had to sell it when my 28 year relationship ended, and that too was something I thought about happening and it did..... do our thoughts control our lives? it seems weirdly coincidental.