some advice please

That one sounds more physical in nature and I would, for safety, consider it a separate event and investigate it as such. Not everything that happens will be from the poltergeist energy, so do play it safe.
yes, I did report it to the police as well and im getting a triple locking extra secure door fitted
 
The doorbell is loudest in my bedroom, literally sounds like its in my wardrobe, just wondering why it would be in my room if it was connected to my daughter. My son stayed over recently , I slept downstairs on a sofabed and gave him my room, he is a very logical down to earth 26 year old, but he heard the doorbell that night and said it freaked him out too


I'm no expert so this is just my thought. The doorbell only goes off in the middle of the night? Presumably your daughter is asleep then but things can still happen, I believe, anywhere in the house. I'm sure others will tell me if I'm wrong, I'm new here too and poltergeist activity is not something I've personally ever experienced. I'm hugely intune with residual energy and spirits of passed people but that's it for me.

I really hope the advice you get from lovely folks here helps ... and glad you're getting a triple lock.
 
I'm no expert so this is just my thought. The doorbell only goes off in the middle of the night? Presumably your daughter is asleep then but things can still happen, I believe, anywhere in the house. I'm sure others will tell me if I'm wrong, I'm new here too and poltergeist activity is not something I've personally ever experienced. I'm hugely intune with residual energy and spirits of passed people but that's it for me.

I really hope the advice you get from lovely folks here helps ... and glad you're getting a triple lock.
Thank you for all the advice and sharing your thoughts on this, its good not to be considered mad :)
 
the worst bit for me is I now find myself lying awake listening for things so am exhausted

Jenny, I know it's hard but please try not to stress. So far you haven't mentioned anything negative that could hurt you. Sending love, light and good wishes your way for both you and your daughter.:<3
 
can I ask another question please. I often seem to have a lot of coincidences, thoughts turn into reality, like my daughter left the bathroom light on, I don't think she likes the dark landing, and I thought, I hope the bulb doesn't go, and guess what the next day it blew and another time I was talking about a childhood friend I hadn't seen since the age of 5, she had moved abroad, 10 minutes later I saw her at the local supermarket, she was visiting her parents 30 years later, another time I noticed a building being erected, thinking what a lovely place it looked to work, I applied for a job, not realising it was relocating to those exact offices and now work there. I also always wanted to move into my parents road, the houses were way too expensive for me to afford, but one came available and my dad suggested helping me purchase it, sadly I had to sell it when my 28 year relationship ended, and that too was something I thought about happening and it did..... do our thoughts control our lives? it seems weirdly coincidental.
 
can I ask another question please. I often seem to have a lot of coincidences, thoughts turn into reality, like my daughter left the bathroom light on, I don't think she likes the dark landing, and I thought, I hope the bulb doesn't go, and guess what the next day it blew and another time I was talking about a childhood friend I hadn't seen since the age of 5, she had moved abroad, 10 minutes later I saw her at the local supermarket, she was visiting her parents 30 years later, another time I noticed a building being erected, thinking what a lovely place it looked to work, I applied for a job, not realising it was relocating to those exact offices and now work there. I also always wanted to move into my parents road, the houses were way too expensive for me to afford, but one came available and my dad suggested helping me purchase it, sadly I had to sell it when my 28 year relationship ended, and that too was something I thought about happening and it did..... do our thoughts control our lives? it seems weirdly coincidental.


I don't personally think our thoughts control our lives, I think some people are just more in tune with what is going on around them, more aware, more attentive to life.

Just a suggestion but you may get a better answer than mine if you ask this particular question in the spirituality forum? Just a thought.