Did I get a sign from my mom today?

Thanks so much Lynne. Glad I explained it better then. I was tired after day out so I was blurry eyed. Glad I did some changes editing it too. I sure sounded terrible there. whew I hate to screw up like that. lol But it's casual and nobody is graded here. Thanks for that. Glad that helped then.
 
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Thanks so much Lynne. Glad I explained it better then. I was tired after day out so I was blurry eyed. Glad I did some changes editing it too. I sure sounded terrible there. whew I hate to screw up like that. lol But it's casual and nobody is graded here. Thanks for that. Glad that helped then.
No worries. This is all about having fun with friends. Sometimes we learn something as a bonus.
 
Yes, I love comparing notes and learning here too. It's great to be among people like myself. That understands it too. Thanks again.
 
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I think you're lucky in that your parents would reach out.

I lost my mom suddenly in 2007. And lost dad just as sudden in 2013. Both were in good shape and their passings were completely unexpected and devastating to me.

I had hoped for a sign. Never have gotten it. I rarely have dreams about them. So I feel like I was just completely abandoned.
 
I think you're lucky in that your parents would reach out.

I lost my mom suddenly in 2007. And lost dad just as sudden in 2013. Both were in good shape and their passings were completely unexpected and devastating to me.

I had hoped for a sign. Never have gotten it. I rarely have dreams about them. So I feel like I was just completely abandoned.
Sorry to hear PR. I can see where them reaching out to you would help.
 
You do feel abandoned. Mine had alzheimer's so I lost them before I lost them. Their personalities were changing and not themselves. I had missed them so sweet and fun people. You have to be watchful for the signs. Open up to them. Ask for a sign from your dad or mom. Just ask them. They are together so they must be content there. Like mine are. Dad was less loud when mom got there. I knew he'd be there to grab her soon as she got there. I had an almost dying experience. I saw a very bright light and then my grandmother was right there. She looked so concerned and just said not your time yet. So I got jolted back into my body. Tachycardia thing. I bet my heartbeat got so fast it skipped and stopped once in there. Hubby said I had a seizure like that. I woke up and was better. Heart dr right after. Scary but that bright light I saw. Dad said sounds like you are going in right direction. Leave it to him then to make a joke bout it. I had missed his joking self as he got into alzheimer's. Was very hard.
 
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I'm so sorry PR. They are there watching over you. Never forget that. That keeps me going. Like a fly on the wall I figure. Makes me feel better. Hang in there. You were much loved.
 
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I think you're lucky in that your parents would reach out.

I lost my mom suddenly in 2007. And lost dad just as sudden in 2013. Both were in good shape and their passings were completely unexpected and devastating to me.

I had hoped for a sign. Never have gotten it. I rarely have dreams about them. So I feel like I was just completely abandoned.
My friends Dad passed from cancer a few yrs ago, pretty young. And a few months later, my friend got money out of the ATM at the bank and one of the bills had a The word “angel” written perfectly on it. That was his nickname for her her whole life. It was very subtle and very easy to miss. Sometimes it’s something that the everyday shuffle would make people miss and not direct contact.

I did not see my brother until 10 yrs after he had passed. My Mother did not see him until 25 yrs after he had passed. They are there, it just may be in small ways and it may take time.
 
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Right. I have seen glimpses of our doggies and my dad some. Flashes and seconds and gone. Just a flash. It does happen though. I agree. Th anks for sharing that. It is true. I'm so sorry of your dad's passing. That is a neat sign there. Definitely a sign from him. Angel. That is cool. I just know I didn't reshuffle those pics. Just 3 of them and I always put my fav on top. That day it wasn't there and the one of my mom on top. It was significant to me. No matter. I didn't drop them and put them up scrambled. I didn't change it. I know what I know. Believe me, or not. Her pic was on top. I didn't place it there so neatly either. I kind of do them not so neat. So it wasn't me that did that. Hubby doesn't touch them. So I know it was that special sign I get. It's comforting.
 
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I’m so sorry to hear of everyone’s loss. God bless you all. I think the signs come when we need them. I recommend setting an intention before falling asleep for them to visit in your dream state. Intend to remember your dream. Keep a journal by the bed and practice writing them down. You should start remembering them and perhaps you will her a visit.