some advice please

I don't personally think our thoughts control our lives, I think some people are just more in tune with what is going on around them, more aware, more attentive to life.

Just a suggestion but you may get a better answer than mine if you ask this particular question in the spirituality forum? Just a thought.
thank you, I will save it for another day, im going to try and sleep now as an early start in the morning, really pleased to have found this site, I have noticed some very interesting threads, thank you for all the support :) x
 
can I ask another question please. I often seem to have a lot of coincidences, thoughts turn into reality, like my daughter left the bathroom light on, I don't think she likes the dark landing, and I thought, I hope the bulb doesn't go, and guess what the next day it blew and another time I was talking about a childhood friend I hadn't seen since the age of 5, she had moved abroad, 10 minutes later I saw her at the local supermarket, she was visiting her parents 30 years later, another time I noticed a building being erected, thinking what a lovely place it looked to work, I applied for a job, not realising it was relocating to those exact offices and now work there. I also always wanted to move into my parents road, the houses were way too expensive for me to afford, but one came available and my dad suggested helping me purchase it, sadly I had to sell it when my 28 year relationship ended, and that too was something I thought about happening and it did..... do our thoughts control our lives? it seems weirdly coincidental.
Those are known as synchronistic events. Get some rest Jenny. Will talk more later.
 
Jenny
Sounds like you are the psychic in the house, but I am new here also, and do not know what causes poltergeist, I don't even know what type of ghost there are, so with that said, I can only give you advice on what what I feel but does not come from knowledge.

I have had my share of experiences with them though, they can do all kinds of annoying things in the house. I had an alarm that would sound even though it was not connected, and had a front door we would find wide open every morning for about a week, then all of a sudden it stopped, well wont go into every thing but can say that they never hurt anyone in our house and, praying out loud with your daughter, going through each room, and asking them to leave could help.
Might want to take the bell part of the door bell off of the wall and remove it from the house, if it is bothering you this much.
Never show fear, and try not to even acknowledge their existence no matter what happen, unless you are praying for them to leave.
What Debi said about the built up energy, could be making the door bell sound, so just get rid of it.
 
I’m late to your post but will weigh in. First off let me extend my sincere condolences on the loss of your mother. It seems that whatever is going on may be location related. If the you have not had issues with this kind of activity prior to your move to your present location, it makes sense it is related to the area. The one incident years ago with the washer may have just been a coincidence if nothing ever happened afterward. I would do as Debi recommended as far as talking with your daughter about expressing her feelings and not holding them in. However I would have a blessing done on the house. Attached is our link to dealing with paranormal activity. Praying the St Michael’s prayer daily (out loud ) is a good idea. It is known to work for all faiths. Please keep us updated. PNF Suggestions for Paranormal Activity Problems
 
Hi Jenny, welcome. I took the time to read back so I could offer at least some insight.
You have an awful lot going on right now, and they might not all be related.
The issues with the lights keep coming up and you may have some older frayed wiring. I had an old lamp bet if I walked across the floor too heavy-footed, it would turn on and off by itself.
So the lighting problems might be not related. Just a thought.
Like you I have had a lot of synchronistic events and precognition dreams. The best I ever figure it out it's very important to pay attention to your environment when you recognize those things and events and people. It could either save you from some trouble or lead you to some very pleasant things.
 
Might want to take the bell part of the door bell off of the wall and remove it from the house, if it is bothering you this much.

Though I read 7Christie’s practical and easy suggestion, I’m more inclined to vote for DogLet’s idea. I was going to offer the same. You might try 7Christie’s idea first because it is the easiest. However, with the level of experiences you’ve reported here, I’d suspect that whatever is influencing the bell will find a way to workaround that minor fix. If you don’t need the doorbell, I’d specifically remove it from the home so that it isn’t a continuous nuance. Don’t forget that even your own concern over the possibility of the bell ringing is needlessly introducing stress on you.

I haven’t noticed anyone mention the gifted Buddha yet. If you or your daughter don’t cherish that gift, I would get rid of it. If your ex-neighbor had any psychic or mystical tendencies, there is the chance that object could be contributing to your issues. Please recognize that I’m not putting all of the blame on that statute, but if you don’t love it, get rid of it to minimize the number of possible suspects. If you cherish the gift, then get it blessed or ritually cleansed.

Jenny, several of us who have studied/practiced any form of witchcraft can tell you that thoughts CAN manifest. In fact, though possibly a controversial statement, I would go so far as to say that Debi’s suggestion of poltergeist activity IS in fact a form of unintended thought manifestation. So helping your daughter to talk through her feelings - with you, another trusted family member or friend, or with a clergy - likely can start to reduce some of the paranormal activities. If you don’t mind your daughter finding your own concerning posts here, you might consider suggesting she read or even join the PNF for herself. We can be a judgement free outlet for her. For some, writing about concerning thoughts is as meaningful as talking about them; and, because writing is more permanent, for some persons, writing is actually a much more powerful form of therapy.
 
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Though I read 7Christie’s practical and easy suggestion, I’m more inclined to vote for DogLet’s idea. I was going to offer the same. You might try 7Christie’s idea first because it is the easiest. However, with the level of experiences you’ve reported here, I’d suspect that whatever is influencing the bell will find a way to workaround that minor fix. If you don’t need the doorbell, I’d specifically remove it from the home so that it isn’t a continuous nuance. Don’t forget that even your own concern over the possibility of the bell ringing is needlessly introducing stress on you.

I haven’t noticed anyone mention the gifted Buddha yet. If you or your daughter don’t cherish that gift, I would get rid of it. If your ex-neighbor had any psychic or mystical tendencies, there is the chance that object could be contributing to your issues. Please recognize that I’m not putting all of the blame on that statute, but if you don’t love it, get rid of it to minimize the number of possible suspects. If you cherish the gift, then get it blessed or ritually cleansed.

Jenny, several of us who have studied/practiced any form of witchcraft can tell you that thoughts CAN manifest. In fact, though possibly a controversial statement, I would go so far as to say that Debi’s suggestion of poltergeist activity IS in fact a form of unintended thought manifestation. So helping your daughter to talk through her feelings - with you, another trusted family member or friend, or with a clergy - likely can start to reduce some of the paranormal activities. If you don’t mind your daughter finding your own concerning posts here, you might consider suggesting she read or even join the PNF for herself. We can be a judgement free outlet for her. For some, writing about concerning thoughts is as meaningful as talking about them; and, because writing is more permanent, for some persons, writing is actually a much more powerful form of therapy.
Good advice Wands.