Looking for help with a ghost

[Samaran]

Hi,

I've been spiritual all my life. I experienced this or that, but there was nothing big-thing that you see in movies. Until today.
Several times today, I saw a boy about eight years old in our apartment. For example, he was watching me at work or watching my husband sleep. I could see clearly what he looked like, even heard his laugh. I don't really know what I should do. I hope I find help in this forum.
We moved into this apartment two and a half months ago, and a week and a half ago we had a cat. This is also an interesting thing because I don't like cats, but my son loves them, and my husband doesn't have a problem with them either. The cat's behavior is completely different than its previous owner said. It was described as a shy but calm animal, and behaved like that when we were there. It was even scared if something had happened before the front door. Ever since it was with us, it was very brave, wanted to go out for a walk itself, and it seemed very confident. AND! it's always following me everywhere, just me, who doesn't like cats so much and who is slightly allergic to them. I can't even go to the toilet without it. If it can't come after me, it'll start meowing/tantrum and behave in a crazy way. I don't know if there is a connection, but I thought I'd write it down. Nothing happened in our family recently.

All opinions and advice are welcome.

 

[Rowan2222]

Hello Samaran. Welcome to the site.

The boy is interesting and I am glad you are being level headed about it. At this stage I would keep a notebook of where seen and times as well as any reason you can think of. This will help later.
If you can at first find out if anyone else has seen it or is it just you. Use tact - don't freak anyone else out.

If you have bought second hand items into the home it may be attached to one of those, or it could be the property itself. If it is an item they are usually seen very close to it. If it is the home they may have a specific spot - or could be anywhere in it. This could be stage one of telling a story that it needs help with, or it could be something else other than a boy.

I would just be cautious at this stage and see what develops, if anything. Take notes of what is seen/ heard/ objects changing places etc.

I wouldn't consider getting rid of such a thing yet. but I would not attempt contact yet either. Ouija boards tend to cause more problems, so I would advise against that.

Regarding the cat; They can act like this with new people. I rescued a cat from a very busy family - they said it was always running around the place and getting under their feet. In my home he was very placid and slept a lot.

 

[Paintman]

Hi Samaran, welcome. Interesting story. There should be several people that are willing and able to give you help with this. So you came to the right forum !
I'm going to try to move this post into Paranormal Experiences. That way more people will see it. I'm one of the mods but I am on my phone right now. I will try to move it and if not I will contact somebody who can.
Again welcome aboard.

 

[Samaran]

Hi Samaran, welcome. Interesting story. There should be several people that are willing and able to give you help with this. So you came to the right forum !
I'm going to try to move this post into Paranormal Experiences. That way more people will see it. I'm one of the mods but I am on my phone right now. I will try to move it and if not I will contact somebody who can.
Again welcome aboard.

Thank you very much. Sorry I didn't post in the right place.

 

[Paintman]

Thank you very much. Sorry I didn't post in the right place.

I'm at work right now and on my phone and can't move your post. If you can cut and paste it under 'create a new thread' that would be great, if not a mod that is near a computer will move it.

 

[ozentity]

Hello Samaran. Welcome to the site.

The boy is interesting and I am glad you are being level headed about it. At this stage I would keep a notebook of where seen and times as well as any reason you can think of. This will help later.
If you can at first find out if anyone else has seen it or is it just you. Use tact - don't freak anyone else out.

If you have bought second hand items into the home it may be attached to one of those, or it could be the property itself. If it is an item they are usually seen very close to it. If it is the home they may have a specific spot - or could be anywhere in it. This could be stage one of telling a story that it needs help with, or it could be something else other than a boy.

I would just be cautious at this stage and see what develops, if anything. Take notes of what is seen/ heard/ objects changing places etc.

I wouldn't consider getting rid of such a thing yet. but I would not attempt contact yet either. Ouija boards tend to cause more problems, so I would advise against that.

Regarding the cat; They can act like this with new people. I rescued a cat from a very busy family - they said it was always running around the place and getting under their feet. In my home he was very placid and slept a lot.

You don't really know what this spirit or entity is but it has no place in your home so you need to tell it to leave without any other conversation so it doesn't think its welcome.I had a boy ghost about that age that would communicate with my young kids and then started wrecking my home.It ended when it pushed me into a metal bath,hitting my head.I felt it was pretending to be a kid but was something more sinister.After me yelling at it it disappeared for good.I don't think the cat is connected but it may be frightened by the spirit and is wanting comfort from you.I'd go with the cat's intuition that this is not a good thing.Welcome Samaran to the forum.

 

[Debi]

Hi Samaran. Glad to have you with us. First thing up, here's some basics.

PNF Suggestions for Paranormal Activity Problems

Next, since this has just occurred, I would say wait and see if it happens again. If it does, my first step would be to tell the child he no longer lives there and needs to move on. As most know, just because you see a child that doesn't mean it is a child. Let it know that it can move on to the Light, that this is your home and space and not his. Then I would use the St. Michael's prayer as well. I would also ask others about previous sightings or activity in the home if you can.

As for the cat....that is pure cat behavior. They often try to bond with those who least wish them too!

 

[garnetsilver]

Lol, I agree with what Debi said about the cat! They seem to follow around those who are not interested in them. And the advice given here about the boy ghost is sound. Let us know how it goes!

 

[Samaran]

Thank you everyone! I was a little afraid of the reactions I was getting because I asked before I read. I was upset, as we had a bad experience before. There was someone who helped, but I don't know anyone here yet who could be asked to bless the apartment at least. But this kind and supportive welcome helped calm me down.

Rowan2222

If you can at first find out if anyone else has seen it or is it just you. Use tact - don't freak anyone else out.

Although my husband respects my spirituality, he doesn't like to talk about that things. At the same time, my son(5) is completely open and he handles these things as natural. Usually he's used to sharing things with me, but he says he hasn't seen anyone now.

If you have bought second hand items into the home it may be attached to one of those

Well yeah....as we tried to be ecofriendly we prefer to buy used things. Almost everything is second hand.

Take notes of what is seen/ heard/ objects changing places etc.

As for his appearances. He was following me all day. My husband only came home late this afternoon, and the two of them were home for a while. When I came back we had dinner and I took our son to sleep. When I entered the room, my husband was already asleep and I saw that he was next to him. To sum up, he seems to be following us for now. Everything remained in place.

I wouldn't consider getting rid of such a thing yet. but I would not attempt contact yet either.

Since I don't feel that I know enough, I didn't think about things like the board. But thank you for warning me that it may cause more trouble.

First thing up, here's some basics.

Thank you Debi for the link and advice.

As for the cat... Since we are homeschooled, I don't know who I deal with more, the cat or my son. But then it seems like it will stay that way. A many hours a day playing, petting, and the following mode.


As I mentioned, we had an earlier experience. Back then, only my son could see the entity. But it started differently, with noises and moving things. It was a year and a half ago, and we lived in another city, not to mention another house. My son still calls it the evil house. Is there a chance that they are related to each other?

 

[Lynne]

Thank you everyone! I was a little afraid of the reactions I was getting because I asked before I read. I was upset, as we had a bad experience before. There was someone who helped, but I don't know anyone here yet who could be asked to bless the apartment at least. But this kind and supportive welcome helped calm me down.

Rowan2222

Although my husband respects my spirituality, he doesn't like to talk about that things. At the same time, my son(5) is completely open and he handles these things as natural. Usually he's used to sharing things with me, but he says he hasn't seen anyone now.

Well yeah....as we tried to be ecofriendly we prefer to buy used things. Almost everything is second hand.

As for his appearances. He was following me all day. My husband only came home late this afternoon, and the two of them were home for a while. When I came back we had dinner and I took our son to sleep. When I entered the room, my husband was already asleep and I saw that he was next to him. To sum up, he seems to be following us for now. Everything remained in place.

Since I don't feel that I know enough, I didn't think about things like the board. But thank you for warning me that it may cause more trouble.


Thank you Debi for the link and advice.

As for the cat... Since we are homeschooled, I don't know who I deal with more, the cat or my son. But then it seems like it will stay that way. A many hours a day playing, petting, and the following mode.


As I mentioned, we had an earlier experience. Back then, only my son could see the entity. But it started differently, with noises and moving things. It was a year and a half ago, and we lived in another city, not to mention another house. My son still calls it the evil house. Is there a chance that they are related to each other?

There is always a possibility that it is related and it is trying to get approval from you to come in. Using a child would be a good ruse. My advice is to follow Debi’s advice from the link she gave you. Welcome to the forum and keep us updated on your situation.