Debi,Marcus, keep in mind that here you will find various "takes" on the paranormal and may also get differing views. Take what applies to you and store the rest as info if you want. As in everything, there are always different views and approaches. I simply ask that everyone respect the other's views. You never know when an alternate viewpoint may trigger a new thought that might apply.
The various takes and perspectives on this experience are why I'm here. I want to hear as many different perspectives as possible until I find the one that "fits" ya know? I always respect others I just had to ask about the name thing though, it was a concept unfamiliar to me.