Is Her Over-Protective Dad Still Watching?

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This experience happened shortly after I finished high school. So I got into this relationship with a girl I had been friends with for a while, and she once told me her dad (who passed away a few years prior to the relationship) was ultra-strict with her when it came to going out or relationships.

So a few weeks into the relationship, strange things started to happen in her house. The first time I visited her house it had a really positive atmosphere about it, and absolutely no history of paranormal activity. The one day I was helping her with some work in the study and we had the door closed. She asked me to take a look at something on her laptop, so I stood behind her and as I placed my hand on her shoulder, we both heard the door click and saw it open slowly. I closed the door and tested to see if I could make it open like that again, but it was solid. I closed the door again making sure it was closed properly and the same thing happened again. When I looked outside there was no one near the study. A few days after that incident, also in the study, a book fell off the bookshelf and I was assured the book was placed properly on the shelf (and seeing that the other books were placed properly on the shelf, I can believe it).

Another incident was the one night I went with her and her family to this evening function. Me and her left the function a bit early so we were alone at her place. So we were lying on the bed together watching TV, and the next thing both of us hear the plates in the kitchen being handled and then one of the kitchen cupboard doors being closed. We were a bit startled by this because her family would have called out to say they were home. So I grab her hockey stick and go investigate the kitchen and found no one home. I checked the house out but no one appeared to be present.

Whenever I made any physical contact with my girlfriend (now ex) at her house, these types of phenomena would take place and would also be experienced by those present at the time. And that's why I think it could have been her dad maybe letting us know he's still watching.

At the end of the year, we decided to end the relationship and go back to just being friends, and she said no paranormal activity has occurred since then. It was these series of events that brought to my attention the possibility that some places, like my school (see The Haunting of 2006/2007) were not really haunted, but more likely that I was attracting the activity without knowing it.
 
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I know we've talked about "beacons" before. It's my belief that some people are simply wired differently and give out that beacon. We can often be seen better by whatever it is that is on the other side of the veil and tend to attract the interaction. Was dad looking over his little girl? Very possible. If he could see your vibrations and knew he could get the message to you, I'm sure it's every dad's wish to "protect" their child....even when they may not need protecting!
 
Whenever I made any physical contact with my girlfriend (now ex) at her house, these types of phenomena would take place and would also be experienced by those present at the time. And that's why I think it could have been her dad maybe letting us know he's still watching.
Did you know this at the time or only after reflection weeks/months later ? Had you suspected it at the time, perhaps you could have spoken with Dad and let him know that you mean no harm to his little girl. Or, your girlfriend talked to her Dad.
 
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Hmmm...thinking a bit more on this, you know your GIRLFRIEND could have also manifested this as a reaction.. Young women have been known to manifest poltergeist activity. It is totally out of their control or even their own knowledge of it, but at that age it could have been an inner self-defense mechanism on her part.
 
Did you know this at the time or only after reflection weeks/months later ? Had you suspected it at the time, perhaps you could have spoken with Dad and let him know that you mean no harm to his little girl. Or, your girlfriend talked to her Dad.

I started considering the idea it was me triggering it near the end of the relationship.

Hmmm...thinking a bit more on this, you know your GIRLFRIEND could have also manifested this as a reaction.. Young women have been known to manifest poltergeist activity. It is totally out of their control or even their own knowledge of it, but at that age it could have been an inner self-defense mechanism on her part.

I'm aware that young women can trigger such activity, but I honestly had not considered that concept at the time. Could be a strong possibility.
 
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Hmmm...thinking a bit more on this, you know your GIRLFRIEND could have also manifested this as a reaction.. Young women have been known to manifest poltergeist activity. It is totally out of their control or even their own knowledge of it, but at that age it could have been an inner self-defense mechanism on her part.

Hi, I'm Mokey. Welcome! I'm a little late to the game but have gone over your posts. Uh, not in a creepy way. :p

I do agree with Debi , and her idea could be right on target. I do realize it's a possibility, but i am getting strong NO from my instincts and from my crew behind me. (won't explain that now, if you care to hear about it sometime, send me a private message.) How old was the girl at the time? How many months did you date? Were you at her house many times, or just a few? Was it weird activity every time you were there?

Debi .....'but at that age it could have been an inner self-defense mechanism on her part.' I was wondering what you were thinking of, or who or what crossed your mind when you mention the self defense mechanism? I can't fully put my agreement on this. First, i need some more info. Second, I am leaning toward the father. However, I actually do have my own conclusion. Presented below!

I am going to throw this out there for vibe feeler and anybody else who is wanting to add their two cents. (Ok, vibe feeler, what can i call you for short. Yes, I'm lazy, i like shorter names lol. Vibe? Well, if you have a preference let me know ;) )

Okay, back to my theory. I looked at your posts and i see you have had quite a bit of activity through your life. Now, I wouldn't say it is from ONE entity, but more. I cannot give an exact amount obviously. With these entities around, it draws even more. Especially if you do not kick them out and cleanse your house. I can get rid of many at a time by going outside and declaring that everyone must leave. This is my house, you are not invited and must go. LEAVE NOW Peace and light and happy journeys. This usually scoots them all out.

However, I get the majority of good guys, let's call them that. I sometimes let them hang out. If something or things happen that i am not fond of, I do this cleanup. You must be loud, clear, use an intention you can memorize. You can use mine, I do not have a copyright :p Demanding in your voice. Do not worry about them retaliating. They will not.

I've had one really really terrible incident with someone opening a portal in my house. Like dogs, I 'sniffed' it out because i could feel it as soon as it happened. Found the poophead that did sneak out before i found their doorway. Well, his time in our realm didn't last long. ;) Had to do portal closing, and ritual around house, outside, but the attempted to flood me with little demon like creatures was a huge fail. The lady who did this wasn't happy. She was learning dark magick at the time and had a tutor. I guess they both failed!

I do, however, have had a lot of encounters with the dark side. The one above was the first one i had as an adult in my own home. When i was a girl...it wasn't cool. I somehow invited many in. To this day I think of three bedrooms where i had them do weird things to the objects. No examples, but it was icky. I have dealt with mean, angry, ugly, demonic, and all sorts of dark entities. I used to help people cleanse their homes. I have run into them in a thrift store. People creating a tulpa and not knowing how to make it go away. Many others. My point is, Debi and I can help you. First, you need to look at yourself. Some of these entities you have encountered might be attachers. I mean they hop on for the ride when you leave your house. Usually they plan on staying at the destination. For you, I don't see that. They DO however cause havoc wherever they are. As in, the girlfriend. When you go home, they hop on and you become their personal taxi. Not sure what Debi will say about this, but for some reason this is, or should say, feels, right to me.

If they stay, or even one stays, then try it once more. If still won't go. Going to have to bring some materials into the picture. Full cleansing with sage or palo santo. You can buy this stuff right on line..Heck Amazon has everything for any situation lol Buy this stuff if you do end up needing it. Do you have a metaphysical shop where you live? If so, go in, check it out, the people working there will be very helpful if you ask questions. I should say MOST of them. Take a read of them, who feels light and airy and happy. Anybody feeling dark, depressed, kind of looks like she does not have much to gain from customer interaction...run away, go back to happy one! If you can't find a shop, look for a stone and rocks place. Ask them if they know of one. Also, take a look at the stones. They usually put up a little info on each one so you know what properties they are good for. I am a stone lover, sorry to push that on you lol I just have great luck with them, and crystals also are your friend!

Okay, back to cleaning. Research, research, research. Find a cleansing you feel good about. Some say chants while they cleanse, waving the sage smoke in the direction desired. I would do everywhere. Corners, toward walls, closets, under beds..just do not start one on fire with the smudge instrument lol You get the picture...EVERYWHERE! Yes, Debi and the St. Michael prayer first, then sage or palo santo smudging.

Here it is again: st Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle: be our protection against the wickednessnares of the devil. may god rebuke him, we humble pray, and do though, o prince of the heavenly host, by the power of god, thrust into hell, satan and all the other evil spirits, who prowl throughout the world, seeing the ruins of souls. amen.

I would guess there are posts on the forum about smudging, cleansing, clearing, and more protection things. With these tools and your confident, loud/demanding voice, go around and kick the leftovers out the door. You must know that your INTENTIONS are way more powerful than any tools or prayers, or trinkets, anything. So think positive, do positive, be positive. You really are capable of doing this. Confidence and Intention.
 
That was a very interesting insight, thank you for sharing your knowledge and I will appreciate your help as I keep posting :).

How old was the girl at the time? How many months did you date? Were you at her house many times, or just a few? Was it weird activity every time you were there?

She was 19, we dated for 11 months and I was often at her house because it was on the way home from my university. The activity didn't occur all the time, but there were times as well that the positive atmosphere didn't really seem to so positive.

If you can't find a shop, look for a stone and rocks place. Ask them if they know of one. Also, take a look at the stones. They usually put up a little info on each one so you know what properties they are good for. I am a stone lover, sorry to push that on you lol I just have great luck with them, and crystals also are your friend!

In 2006 we did get a guy in who was knowledgeable on rocks and crystals, and placed a number of large rose quartz rocks around the property. It offered little remedy, as in 2007 the activity was still quite high.
 
You have good help here with Debi and Mokey. Not much to add. Sending you prayers for success in dealing with this