Our dinner is usually traditional turkey, mashed potatoes, green beans. Each of the girls cook something and bring over. The dinner day and opening gifts day varies each year because our family and extended family is in different places. We try to be flexible and rotate holidays so that all grandparents get to enjoy Christmas and Thanksgiving and Easter with their children and grandchildren. Of course, with modern technology, we can facetime one another. Its not the same as being there, but its the next best thing.