One of those giant sinkholes has opened up in your back yard, and the big brains confirm that at the current rate of growth it will swallow your home in a week. In an unusual gesture of cooperation, your insurance company has agreed to pay off immediately, and is at your door with a check. (Hey, I know a meteor is more likely to strike the earth in Kansas City and come out through the Indian Ocean... work with me!) So the question is, where do you go?
Would you stay in the same area where you live now, or would you relocate to a different state? A different country, perhaps?
I can honestly say, in complete Charlie Brown fashion, that I don't know what I would do. While my only connection to this area is my wife's family, I have come to really love this little community that we moved into and have become a part of. I know my neighbors, and we watch out for and help each other. I can honestly say that I'm happy here, even though having to make a 20-30 minute drive to do more than basic shopping took some adjusting to. Or re-adjusting, I suppose, since that was my situation growing up in small-town Missouri.
Of course on the flip side is that my boys are in suburban Kansas City, still in the town we lived in for so many years before moving here. The parental need to be close to your kids does have a certain pull, but I suspect they are both enjoying life without mom and dad in the same town always offering them unwanted advice about one thing or another.
I suppose in the end I'd probably stay in the general area where I am now. It has become home, and there is a sense of community and friendliness that I just never felt in KC. Too many people worried about their own world there... here, strangers greet you with a smile and a "howdy" or "how do", and if you need help with something it sometimes just shows up without asking. Case in point: one of those prefab utility buildings that looks like a barn was on the property when we bought it. It was old, and the siding was in a pretty sorry state, but the bones were good. Last spring, I decided to tear off the old siding and replace it with plywood. It was a job I could do by myself, even though having help would have made it easier. My neighbor saw me outside working, came over and offered his help. That's what would keep me here.
Would you stay in the same area where you live now, or would you relocate to a different state? A different country, perhaps?
I can honestly say, in complete Charlie Brown fashion, that I don't know what I would do. While my only connection to this area is my wife's family, I have come to really love this little community that we moved into and have become a part of. I know my neighbors, and we watch out for and help each other. I can honestly say that I'm happy here, even though having to make a 20-30 minute drive to do more than basic shopping took some adjusting to. Or re-adjusting, I suppose, since that was my situation growing up in small-town Missouri.
Of course on the flip side is that my boys are in suburban Kansas City, still in the town we lived in for so many years before moving here. The parental need to be close to your kids does have a certain pull, but I suspect they are both enjoying life without mom and dad in the same town always offering them unwanted advice about one thing or another.
I suppose in the end I'd probably stay in the general area where I am now. It has become home, and there is a sense of community and friendliness that I just never felt in KC. Too many people worried about their own world there... here, strangers greet you with a smile and a "howdy" or "how do", and if you need help with something it sometimes just shows up without asking. Case in point: one of those prefab utility buildings that looks like a barn was on the property when we bought it. It was old, and the siding was in a pretty sorry state, but the bones were good. Last spring, I decided to tear off the old siding and replace it with plywood. It was a job I could do by myself, even though having help would have made it easier. My neighbor saw me outside working, came over and offered his help. That's what would keep me here.